Relationships are not full proof; it has its own share of ups and downs. There is no relationship manual to help you overcome or avoid heartbreak. All of have been stuck by stupid-cupid and fallen head over heels madly, blindly in the game of LOVE.
Though there are some clear-cut signs and patterns showing that you are dating the wrong person. All of us have experienced this it at least once in our lifetime so far.
1. Demanding/commanding all the time
If your partner is very demanding and controlling at all times, dictating terms and condition like
• What to do and what not.
• What to wear, what not.
• Whom to talk to
• When to sit, sleep, drink, eat, etc
Just make your exit plan. He’s not the one you can think of a long-term relationship with.
Trust is the main ingredient of any long-lasting relationship. In its absence, the entire dish goes for a six.
2. Always your best critic
You are dating the wrong person, if he is always criticising about your taste for food, music, movies, dressing, and make-up. He’s too self-centered to notice the good in you.
3. I’m the BEST; you are the fortunate one
Some guys think too highly of themselves. They don’t miss a single chance to outshine you. On top of it, you are made to feel to be the fortunate one, to have got them in your life.
4. Less attentive towards you
It’s a clear-cut hint; if you are dating the wrong person, he’s less attentive towards your needs, desires, likes, and dislikes.
Don’t be just the trophy wife/girlfriend for some one. Be more desirable and know your worth.
5. Insensitive behaviour towards less fortunate one’s or a show-off
Guys with rude behaviour towards service staff, spill the beans of their behavioural issues. If they are not nice to the simple common public serving them; expect nothing for yourself from them.
It’s not checked to kick the common man and show-off your money, power or position.
6. Doubts you or doesn’t let you meet his friends
How annoying it can be, if your partner frequently calls to check your whereabouts. Doubting and chasing you every hour/every day.
You are definitely dating the wrong person if he’s super possessive and cannot share your time with others. If he finds reasons to avoid meeting you up with his friends, then something is definitely not right.
7. Instagram/Facebook is out of your bounds
If you are not friends with him on Facebook and Instagram, then he’s hiding a lot from you. If the relationship is on a serious note, then these accounts are shared.
8. Always trust your GUT/Intuition
Hold no doubts if your gut or intuition says otherwise. Something has to go wrong will go wrong. But your inner self will always warn you.
Listen to that voice for your mental health and peace. You are dating the wrong person if your GUT says so. Believe it or not!